enforce training can only use one dataset per node

MR description

• implement #395 (closed) - multiple datasets from one node in an Experiment(). See issue for details.
• misc implement #476 (closed) - training does not fail nicely when data does not exist on node (discovered and one-line-fixed while implementing #395 (closed))

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