feat: move to scikit-build-core (#54)

* feat: move to scikit-build-core

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* Update CMakeLists.txt

* WIP: try some things

* ci: try Windows

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* ci: Windows change

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* Update meta.yaml

* Update meta.yaml

* Update meta.yaml

* Update meta.yaml

* Update meta.yaml

* chore: use scikit-build-core 0.1.0

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* ci: try 2019

* Update meta.yaml

* Update conda.recipe/meta.yaml

* Update .github/workflows/conda.yml

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>